General information only. This article is not medical advice and is not a substitute for care from a licensed professional.
Many churches recommend premarital counseling, and many engaged couples find it one of the most useful parts of preparing for marriage.
What it usually covers
Communication and conflict, money and debt, family of origin and in-laws, expectations about roles, children, intimacy, and how you will grow in faith together.
Structured assessments
Many counselors use an assessment such as PREPARE/ENRICH. Each partner answers separately, then you review your strengths and growth areas together with a trained facilitator.
How many sessions?
Often 5 to 8 sessions over a couple of months. Starting a few months before the wedding leaves room to put what you learn into practice.
It's not just for couples with problems
Premarital counseling is preventive. Couples who attend are usually happy and simply want a strong foundation.